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the zombies, are coming:
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my best set-up to 26 streaks.. sigh..
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Thursday, August 06, 2009
the open relationship guide book (for us fags):
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1) Three Strikes
When either partner finds a hot guy they want to have sex with, there is a limit of 3 times they can get it on. The first time is to satisfy curiosity, the second time is if the first time was really good, the third time is to say goodbye... Any more than three times and it's an affair...
2) Disclosure
Each person must tell their partner about the times they have sex with others. Preferably this should happen after the event, as telling before can lead to insecurity and worry. Non-disclosure leads to secrets... secrets make people lie... lies erode trust... no trust, no relationship...
3) Condoms
This should be self evident, but it needs to be said... ALWAYS use a condom...
4) Forgiveness
There is nothing between you and your partner that cannot be forgiven. Thats what love is, that no matter what happens, if forgiveness is sought then it shall be given. But it should never be taken advantage of. Respect always.
Remember, we are not straight. We do not have children to protect. We do not have women using threats to keep us funding the family unit (yes, a lot of women do this). That's not a value judgment, there are perfectly reasonable evolutionary reasons why women should behave in this way. Be thankful as gay men that we don't have to endure their inability to understand us.
We are gay, and seeing as society has rejected us we are under no obligation to conform to their rules concerning our own relationships. We therefore have the very agreeable situation where we can invent the terms of our own relationships, rather than follow society's rules. Love MUST be unconditional. That means love each other no matter what...
Enjoy your sexuality together and seperately and always remember that it's only sex... Let's face it, we don't need an emotional component to have sex like so many women do. We make love to our partners, not to anyone else. Your future, heart and minds belong to each other... But your bodies belong to you...
-Matthew Malpeli
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Tuesday, August 04, 2009
